The Infinite Relating Podcast
We believe every relationship has a unique life cycle that, if allowed to unfold, is more interesting and rewarding than anything we could plan.
Infinite Relating is not about what a relationship looks like – the marriage, the kids, the shared bank accounts, or monogamy vs. polyamory. It’s about gaining true satisfaction based on how our connections feel.
As relationship explorers, we follow this evolving path to fulfillment first by embracing our relationships as they are, rather than measuring them against how we think they should be.
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Meet Bez & Freyja
Bez and Freyja are the creators of Infinite Relating, an unconventional approach to relationships that’s all about authenticity, curiosity, and letting connection unfold naturally. They’re partners in love, life, and exploring what it means to relate without rules or expectations.
Through their podcast, workshops, and community events, Bez and Freyja share their experiences, insights, and a whole lot of laughs as they navigate love, intimacy, and connection with humor, daring, and vulnerability. Their work invites people to drop the scripts, embrace the unpredictability of life, and discover relationships that feel real, alive, and endlessly evolving.

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Local to Santa Cruz? Explore Infinite Relating concepts in person and in community in our sharing circle-style groups on the 2nd and 4th Thursday of every month.